43-year-old woman says she likes sleeping with toyboy virgins
Published: 2013 July 20 08:11:19 (7478 Views)
43-year-old Jackie Oakes prefers to sleep with young men, preferably virgins.
And she prides herself in being the first conquest of blokes as young as 18.
The care worker from Wellingborough, Northants, UK, reckons her experience makes her irresistible.
And she gets a thrill to think she is the one woman many of her lovers will never forget.
Jackie says: "As long as young men continue to find me attractive, I'll be game. It's beyond flattering to be someone's first because you automatically become the woman they never forget.
"How many women can say that about men they've been with?
"And what older woman isn't attracted to younger men? They look better, have better bodies and they don't run out of energy after a couple of hours.
"Being inexperienced is the icing on the cake. They're eager to learn how to do it properly."
Jackie finds her lovers on websites for "cougars" — the term for older women who like young men — and at raunchy London clubs.
She first found virgins satisfied her needs after sleeping with a 21-year-old chef called Craig, who trembled with fear during their first encounter.
Jackie says: "I joined a cougar dating site and said I was an older woman with a big appetite for life and only interested in men aged between 18 and 28.
"Within a day I had about 60 replies and another 60 the day after. I couldn't believe how many young men out there were eager to be with me.
Jackie admits her sex life was not always so unconventional. She married her childhood sweetheart Chris at 18, when they were both virgins.
Jackie says: "We had no idea what we were doing and were both nervous, so it was really awkward.
"Over time, we got more experienced and things did get better. Like everything else, practice makes perfect."
But after 13 years and two kids, the marriage was in trouble.
Jackie says: "I started working after being a stay-at-home mum.
"While I made new friends and started going out to clubs and bars, Chris was happy having the odd drink in the pub with friends.
"I'd get chatted up by fit-looking young men then come home to my husband slumped in front of the TV like an old man.
"Over time, I started feeling less and less attracted to him. Our sex life suffered to the point where we stopped having any. That left us living together as friends. I was only 30 and that just wasn't the life I wanted.
"We sat down and talked it through — and Chris admitted that he felt the same."
The pair separated and just two months later Jackie started seeing a co-worker called Anthony. He was 21, ten years her junior.
She says: "I'd had my eye on him for a long time but I had no idea that he had been eyeing me as well.
"Being with him was completely different to being with my husband. He wasn't very experienced but he was more than happy for me to tell him what to do and what not to do.
"Not only was there a physical attraction, he was fun."
They moved in together and went on to have three children.
But after nine years, Jackie started to feel restless again. She says: "Once Anthony hit 30, he suddenly stopped wanting to go out and said he preferred staying at home.
"Even when he did go out, he'd get tired after just a few hours — while I'd still be raring to go.
"Finally it hit me. He'd become too old for me. If we stayed together, I'd be stuck in a rut.
"He was upset when I told him. He couldn't understand why I would think he was too old when there was still a ten-year age difference.
"It was a question of attitude. Even though I was 40, I felt like I was 20 — and I wanted to be with men that age.
"He finally accepted the situation and agreed to move out."
Since sleeping with Craig, Jackie has bedded countless other virgins.
She says: "Most of the men I met after him turned out to be in the same boat. They'd be nervous as soon as things moved into the bedroom.
"But they all worked hard to make sure I had a good time.
"Pretty soon I found myself being turned off by men who were experienced."
Jackie's youngest lover was 18 — three years younger than her eldest son.
She says: "He told me he was 23 and boasted about running his own business and owning a big house. It was only after we had sex that I caught sight of his college ID on top of the dresser and realised how young he was.
"At first, I was a bit shocked. But he was perfectly legal and I hadn't broken any laws, so there was no reason for me to be freaked out."
Jackie's children have no problem with their mother's peculiar love life — although they would not be keen on her tying the knot with a teenager.
- Sun
And she prides herself in being the first conquest of blokes as young as 18.
The care worker from Wellingborough, Northants, UK, reckons her experience makes her irresistible.
And she gets a thrill to think she is the one woman many of her lovers will never forget.
Jackie says: "As long as young men continue to find me attractive, I'll be game. It's beyond flattering to be someone's first because you automatically become the woman they never forget.
"How many women can say that about men they've been with?
"And what older woman isn't attracted to younger men? They look better, have better bodies and they don't run out of energy after a couple of hours.
"Being inexperienced is the icing on the cake. They're eager to learn how to do it properly."
Jackie finds her lovers on websites for "cougars" — the term for older women who like young men — and at raunchy London clubs.
She first found virgins satisfied her needs after sleeping with a 21-year-old chef called Craig, who trembled with fear during their first encounter.
Jackie says: "I joined a cougar dating site and said I was an older woman with a big appetite for life and only interested in men aged between 18 and 28.
"Within a day I had about 60 replies and another 60 the day after. I couldn't believe how many young men out there were eager to be with me.
Jackie admits her sex life was not always so unconventional. She married her childhood sweetheart Chris at 18, when they were both virgins.
Jackie says: "We had no idea what we were doing and were both nervous, so it was really awkward.
"Over time, we got more experienced and things did get better. Like everything else, practice makes perfect."
But after 13 years and two kids, the marriage was in trouble.
Jackie says: "I started working after being a stay-at-home mum.
"While I made new friends and started going out to clubs and bars, Chris was happy having the odd drink in the pub with friends.
"I'd get chatted up by fit-looking young men then come home to my husband slumped in front of the TV like an old man.
"Over time, I started feeling less and less attracted to him. Our sex life suffered to the point where we stopped having any. That left us living together as friends. I was only 30 and that just wasn't the life I wanted.
"We sat down and talked it through — and Chris admitted that he felt the same."
The pair separated and just two months later Jackie started seeing a co-worker called Anthony. He was 21, ten years her junior.
She says: "I'd had my eye on him for a long time but I had no idea that he had been eyeing me as well.
"Being with him was completely different to being with my husband. He wasn't very experienced but he was more than happy for me to tell him what to do and what not to do.
"Not only was there a physical attraction, he was fun."
They moved in together and went on to have three children.
But after nine years, Jackie started to feel restless again. She says: "Once Anthony hit 30, he suddenly stopped wanting to go out and said he preferred staying at home.
"Even when he did go out, he'd get tired after just a few hours — while I'd still be raring to go.
"Finally it hit me. He'd become too old for me. If we stayed together, I'd be stuck in a rut.
"He was upset when I told him. He couldn't understand why I would think he was too old when there was still a ten-year age difference.
"It was a question of attitude. Even though I was 40, I felt like I was 20 — and I wanted to be with men that age.
"He finally accepted the situation and agreed to move out."
Since sleeping with Craig, Jackie has bedded countless other virgins.
She says: "Most of the men I met after him turned out to be in the same boat. They'd be nervous as soon as things moved into the bedroom.
"But they all worked hard to make sure I had a good time.
"Pretty soon I found myself being turned off by men who were experienced."
Jackie's youngest lover was 18 — three years younger than her eldest son.
She says: "He told me he was 23 and boasted about running his own business and owning a big house. It was only after we had sex that I caught sight of his college ID on top of the dresser and realised how young he was.
"At first, I was a bit shocked. But he was perfectly legal and I hadn't broken any laws, so there was no reason for me to be freaked out."
Jackie's children have no problem with their mother's peculiar love life — although they would not be keen on her tying the knot with a teenager.
- Sun
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