Woman says she likes to watch her boyfriend sleeping with other women
Published: 2013 July 17 16:24:40 (6839 Views)
22-year-old Abigayle Woodburn from the UK says that she likes to watch her boyfriend of three years having sleeping with other women in their bed.
Rather than feel furious and humiliated, Abigayle insists she enjoys the experience of seeing personal trainer Tom Hayden, 27, bed strangers.
So much so, the couple have had liaisons with more than FIFTY women.
Abigayle is one of a growing number of women who are "voyeur swingers" — they find women advertising on free classified websites, such as Friday-Ad, Vivastreet and Craigslist, then watch them have sex with their partners.
In the past year, finance director Abigayle claims the number of women using these sites has more than doubled.
Abigayle, who has a three-year-old daughter from a previous relationship, says: "People may think it is dodgy inviting strangers round for this type of encounter but we love it.
Abigayle, from Bolton, was not always happy to see Tom with another woman.
She says: "Life seemed perfect until about a year ago, when I came home early and caught him in bed with another woman.
"When I opened the door, I screamed at them and the woman just grabbed her clothes and ran.
"I was distraught and could not understand why Tom would cheat on me."
He later revealed his sordid secret. He had been sleeping with other women for more than a year.
Abigayle says: "He said he got a thrill from the unknown and that he was addicted to sex with strangers he picked on the net. He was adamant he wasn't in love with this woman and he had not paid any of them. I was horrified."
Abigayle went to stay with her mum. But instead of leaving Tom, she took steps that would make most women shudder.
She says: "I realised I couldn't live without Tom, he was my world. Curiosity got the better of me and I looked online at the sites where he'd found these women.
"There were hundreds of women who wanted one-night stands with strangers or to be in threesomes.
"As I looked, a strange thing happened. I found myself getting excited. That's when I got the idea of me being part of this, as a sort of threesome with me watching.
"When I put it to Tom, his eyes lit up. I told him that watching was something that intrigued me.
"Other women probably think I'm mad but they don't know the type of relationship we have. It's very trusting. I knew Tom wasn't lying when he said he had an addiction, so why walk away?"
To become a part of the bizarre process, Abigayle decided to choose Tom's next partner.
"I explained I didn't want to get physically involved and that I'd just be watching. We emailed pictures of Tom across and she agreed to visit us at the weekend.
"Tom and I had opted to keep her appearance a surprise for him so as to heighten the thrill.
Abigayle is not worried about the potential health risks of her and Tom's sleazy sex life.
She says: "Tom always wears a condom — that is a definite requirement by me and the girl.
"This sort of thing is always very safe. It's strangers meeting for the first time, so it has to be.
"You'd have to be really stupid not to protect yourself."
Although she acts blasé, Abigayle admits jealousy does creep in.
She says: "After the first time, I did have to ask him: 'Was she better than me?' We had a great sex life — and still sleep together three or four times a week — but I was worried because he really seemed to be enjoying himself.
"But Tom said sex with Ashley wasn't better as there was no love involved — it was just different.
"Since that night, Tom and I have had over 50 encounters with strangers. I've always opted to sit and watch but, who knows, one day I may want to join in.
"For me, finding my boyfriend in bed with another woman turned out to be the most exciting thing that ever happened to us.
"My family know as well. My mum finds it very difficult to deal with and wants me to leave Tom.
"But they have to accept that this is our relationship — I want it to work and this works for us.
"Thousands of men cheat on their wives behind their backs.
"I'm content that Tom is open enough to be honest with me, and glad I decided to get involved."
"The last thing I ever wanted to do was upset Abigayle," says Tom.
"Since Abigayle has been watching me have sex our relationship has grown stronger than ever. We have an incredible sex life and there are no secrets between us.
"To me, Abigayle is both sexually attractive and someone I'll always be in love with, so she knows she has nothing to worry about." - Sun
Rather than feel furious and humiliated, Abigayle insists she enjoys the experience of seeing personal trainer Tom Hayden, 27, bed strangers.
So much so, the couple have had liaisons with more than FIFTY women.
Abigayle is one of a growing number of women who are "voyeur swingers" — they find women advertising on free classified websites, such as Friday-Ad, Vivastreet and Craigslist, then watch them have sex with their partners.
In the past year, finance director Abigayle claims the number of women using these sites has more than doubled.
Abigayle, who has a three-year-old daughter from a previous relationship, says: "People may think it is dodgy inviting strangers round for this type of encounter but we love it.
Abigayle, from Bolton, was not always happy to see Tom with another woman.
She says: "Life seemed perfect until about a year ago, when I came home early and caught him in bed with another woman.
"When I opened the door, I screamed at them and the woman just grabbed her clothes and ran.
"I was distraught and could not understand why Tom would cheat on me."
He later revealed his sordid secret. He had been sleeping with other women for more than a year.
Abigayle says: "He said he got a thrill from the unknown and that he was addicted to sex with strangers he picked on the net. He was adamant he wasn't in love with this woman and he had not paid any of them. I was horrified."
Abigayle went to stay with her mum. But instead of leaving Tom, she took steps that would make most women shudder.
She says: "I realised I couldn't live without Tom, he was my world. Curiosity got the better of me and I looked online at the sites where he'd found these women.
"There were hundreds of women who wanted one-night stands with strangers or to be in threesomes.
"As I looked, a strange thing happened. I found myself getting excited. That's when I got the idea of me being part of this, as a sort of threesome with me watching.
"When I put it to Tom, his eyes lit up. I told him that watching was something that intrigued me.
"Other women probably think I'm mad but they don't know the type of relationship we have. It's very trusting. I knew Tom wasn't lying when he said he had an addiction, so why walk away?"
To become a part of the bizarre process, Abigayle decided to choose Tom's next partner.
"I explained I didn't want to get physically involved and that I'd just be watching. We emailed pictures of Tom across and she agreed to visit us at the weekend.
"Tom and I had opted to keep her appearance a surprise for him so as to heighten the thrill.
Abigayle is not worried about the potential health risks of her and Tom's sleazy sex life.
She says: "Tom always wears a condom — that is a definite requirement by me and the girl.
"This sort of thing is always very safe. It's strangers meeting for the first time, so it has to be.
"You'd have to be really stupid not to protect yourself."
Although she acts blasé, Abigayle admits jealousy does creep in.
She says: "After the first time, I did have to ask him: 'Was she better than me?' We had a great sex life — and still sleep together three or four times a week — but I was worried because he really seemed to be enjoying himself.
"But Tom said sex with Ashley wasn't better as there was no love involved — it was just different.
"Since that night, Tom and I have had over 50 encounters with strangers. I've always opted to sit and watch but, who knows, one day I may want to join in.
"For me, finding my boyfriend in bed with another woman turned out to be the most exciting thing that ever happened to us.
"My family know as well. My mum finds it very difficult to deal with and wants me to leave Tom.
"But they have to accept that this is our relationship — I want it to work and this works for us.
"Thousands of men cheat on their wives behind their backs.
"I'm content that Tom is open enough to be honest with me, and glad I decided to get involved."
"The last thing I ever wanted to do was upset Abigayle," says Tom.
"Since Abigayle has been watching me have sex our relationship has grown stronger than ever. We have an incredible sex life and there are no secrets between us.
"To me, Abigayle is both sexually attractive and someone I'll always be in love with, so she knows she has nothing to worry about." - Sun
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