Sex dream scenarios and what they mean Have you ever found
yourself in the midst of a steamy sex scene during a dream? Indulging in
a little sexy time is a common dream theme, but what does all this
trouser tugging, bra unhooking, hair ruffling passion mean? Move over
Freud, we've got your sex dreams explained.
Sex dream 1: Being cheated on Dreaming
that your partner is cheating on you can be an unsettling experience to
say the least, but if you've just woken up from this kind of dream
armed with a pillow to whack your other half with, hang fire for one
moment; dreams about cheating rarely mean that your partner is being
unfaithful. Indeed, dream analyst Gillian Holloway explains that this
kind of vision is down to feelings of emotional abandonment. For
example, if your partner has been working more than usual, it's common
to feel like you're literally being ‘cheated' out of your time with
them. Phew! Step away from the pillow...
Sex dream 2: Public sexHaving
sex in front of onlookers usually means one of two things; if the crowd
in your dream make you feel uncomfortable, the chances are you feel
self-conscious about what others are thinking about your relationship in
your waking hours. Worried that your best friend doesn't approve of
your new squeeze? This kind of scenario is a good explanation for public
sex dreams. Alternatively, if you're feeling proud of your naughty –
albeit imaginary – sex show, it's a sign that you have a burning desire
to shout about your sizzling sex life from the rooftops in real life.
Sex dream 3: Sex with someone unexpectedYou've
dreamt that you're getting your freak on with someone that you've never
even thought of in ‘that' way before such as your boss, your best
buddy, or your whacky next door neighbour? Awkward! Don't assume that
this means you have a deep-rooted romantic desire to hook up with this
person though. Dream analyst Patricia Garfield explains that dreaming of
having sex with someone you would never usually think about in that way
means that you probably admire a quality that this person possesses and
that you rather fancy that quality for yourself.
Sex dream 4: Searching for a place to get it onHave
you spent your night tirelessly searching around with your partner for
the perfect place to get passionate? Dream expert Gillian Holloway
explains that this kind of vision suggests a lack of intimacy with your
other half and that you're looking to spice things up a little. Other
common underlying meanings to this dream involve feelings of anxiety
about what the future holds or worrying about mismatched goals with your
partner.
Sex dream 5: Sex with an exDreaming of having sex
with an ex may be upsetting and can make you feel really guilty if you
have a new partner. There is really no need to sit your current partner
down and make a guilty confession though; remember that dreams are
usually symbolic rather than literal. Visions of having sexy time with
your ex are common when you're embarking upon a new relationship as you
subconsciously weigh up the pros and cons of your new lover to see if
you're moving on for the better. If you're not entering into a
relationship with someone else, there's a possibility that you and your
ex have unfinished business that is playing on your mind.
Sex dream 6: Lesbian dreamsSame-sex
intimacy relationships are more common in women, although they do occur
amongst heterosexual men too. The reason why they're more common in
women is because it tends to reveal a subconscious need for sensitivity.
As females are often associated with nurturing, getting passionate with
a female in a dream is a symbol of your desire to have someone care for
you and be sensitive towards your feelings. Gay men may have
heterosexual dreams about sleeping with women too, again usually because
they desire a little female sensitivity.
Sex dream 7: Sex with a celebrityThe
obvious reason for dreaming of having sex with a celebrity is because
you have a crush on them, but what about when it's a celebrity that you
aren't particularly attracted to in your waking hours? Under this
circumstance, it usually means that you have a desire to feel more
special and appreciated. Dream analyst Cynthia Richmond explains that
people in need of a little romance and attention tend to dream about sex
with a celebrity because they want to be a part of that VIP world that
makes famous people the centre of attention.
Sex dream 8: A threesomeX-rated
dreams about having sex with multiple partners are less naughty than
you may think. All of that sexual action may be a sign that you're
feeling the need to be more supported in life or that there is something
missing. If the threesome is female dominant, it's likely that you are
missing some form of emotional element in your life. If it's male
dominant, it's likely that you're missing physical attention. Either
way, this sort of dream signals that it may be worth asking for a little
support from your friends and family every once in a while.
Sex dream 9: You can't see his or her faceIt's
quite common to dream about having sex with a lover whose face you just
can't seem to view. Who is this mysterious intruder beneath your
sheets? This is a question that you may never find the answer to in the
land of nod (damn it), but we do have an idea of what the dream actually
means. Dream psychologist Ian Wallace explains that a sex scene with a
faceless lover means that your subconscious is urging you to unmask your
hidden talents – ooh! Undercover artist? Singer? Magician?
Sex dream 10: Sex with someone inappropriateYou'd
never have an affair in your waking hours, particularly not with your
best friend's partner, yet last night you were all over him/her like a
rash (in your dream, of course). Why is this? The first explanation is
that you're subconsciously curious about what it's like to be with this
person. To dig a little deeper into the symbolism behind sex with
someone inappropriate, this dream often signals that you're stuck in a
rut. Whether it is in your life in general or your sex life
specifically, it might be time to start spicing things up a little!
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